boys and girls can be best friends right? but what do you do when your boyfriend is also your best friend but you’re not his? and when it seems like he cares more about his best friend than you? and when it even seems like she is his girlfriend instead of you? i never trusted them being togheter.
when my boyfriend and i got togheter they already seemed super close to each other, when i was with him he was constantly texting her and they send each other 4 ♥’s. i got annoyed of it so i asked him to stop. (he always got mad when i texted another boy, he still does) so he stopped. but they were still close in front of me (like hugging and teasing each other in front of my face) i also asked to stop that so he did. everything was fine and i started to trust them again. but lately something happened. i live in belgium so there were kanaalfeesten in Willebroek so i went there with my boyfriend and his best friend came with us. (she’s also a friend of me btw) but they were constantly hugging each other and playing and teasing each other in front of my face, they were acting like i don’t even existed. We sat around a table, just the 3 of us. but suddenly my boyfriend and her were gone, they stood up and went somewhere and left me all alone out there. he also gave his sweater to her when she was cold while i was freezing too. they just acted like i wasen’t there at all. and it seemed like she was his girlfriend. he also let me down a couple of times just to hang out with her when i needed him. so i just don’t know what to do. i talked to him about it but he doesn’t understand how i feel. he never really cared about my feelings..
Hey there! :)
I apologise for the late reply. sorry if im speaking out of line but this boy sounds like a bit of a jerk! im annoyed for you. I suggest seriously talking to him and telling him everything your telling me and that hes being completely inappropriate. It’s possible he doesn’t realise hes doing this to you and if you have an honest chat with him about it and tell him how hes making you feel if hes a good boyfriend he should stop.
It might also be an idea to talk to the girl if your close enough. If you choose to i’d suggest doing it in person and being careful with your wording, girls are defensive about that kind of stuff usually. Let her know firmly that he’s your boyfriend not hers and it needs to stop.
I really hope you can sort things out! Best of luck