: 19/f, just worked up the courage to ask a guy out for the second time. He suggested Sunday...but now he's not replying? Should I just give up? I want to ask him if we were still on because I was going to tell him my feelings (we've been casual so far) but I feel like this is my answer..
There may be a reason he’s not replying, don’t jump to a conclusion. If you’re worried then of course ask if it’s still on! Well I suppose that depends on how long you’ve been seeing each other, if you say it too early you could scare him off, it’s a delicate matter to approach, when you think the time is right, talk to him. However try and keep it light don’t make the subject seem all heavy and serious, it’s always best to keep things light and easy :)
Good luck! Xxx
: a few months I developed a crush on a guy in school I really liked him and all was good until a situation came up and it ended up him having a go at me because of something I had apparently said, I tried to explain to him that I didn't say that but he just wouldn't believe me even my best mate whose really close to him had said that I didn't say it but he still carried on not believing me. At first I was really mad at him and I thought that I didn't like him but now I don't know HELP ME
When you say had a go at you do you mean hit you? Because if a guy hits you you should definitely end things with him for good. You deserve so much better and a man should never hit a woman.
: I'm worried my girlfriend wants to break up with me. For the past couple of days whenever I try talking to her, she's either shorthanded or won't say anything after a certain point. This isn't new, but she's never done it for days on end before. Maybe there's something bothering her that has nothing to do with us, maybe she's just feeling really upset. I'm really worried about her and have no idea what to do or say.
I think that you should talk to her. Maybe it’s about you but it could be so many other things. You want her to feel comfortable telling you anything, so tell her how much you care about her and that you have been noticing how distant she’s been and ask her whats on her mind and what she’s been thinking about. Make sure that she knows that you want to hear it and that you are here for her, but it worries you to see you like this. I hope this helped. Message us whenever.
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: There's this guy in my Spanish class and he is gorgeous and I'd love to talk to him. The thing is, I don't have any other classes with him and I don't have his number or anything. I don't know any of his friends either. I've caught his eye a few times and he smiled at me once (wow we're made for each other). I think it would be weird if I just walked up to him and said "hi!" so... any advice? Thanks~ (PS: I'm a 15 year old girl.)
Hello there sweetie!
Well it sounds promising if you catch eyes and smile at each other etc. The only thing you can really do is try to talk to him, I know it’s scary but just saying Hi one day could do so much. If that’s too hard find an excuse to talk to him something like “Have you done the homework?” “Do you know when this assignment was due?” something casual like that, just an excuse to strike up a conversation and then introduce yourself, ask him what subjects he takes etc etc. Hopefully the conversation will continue, at least you would have made some initial contact :)
Good luck my love! xxxx
: Do you think there’s some people who are just a waste of space and shouldn’t be alive? I’m way too flawed; I don’t fit in, I’m conceited, arrogant, stupid, selfish, clumsy, worthless, ugly, fat, lonely, a virgin and the only reason I don’t kill myself is because I’m too much of a pussy. Everyone hates me. People who don’t know me. People who do. My family. I’m such a piece of shit and no matter how much I try to change I can never better myself I don’t know what to do
I don’t think that anyone doesn’t deserve to exist unless they are a murderer or something despicable and unforgivable like that. All those names you just called your self is only your opinion and you will never truly know how people perceive you and what they think of you. I’m sure there is some one in the world who loves you dearly. Please please don’t hurt your self. Try to find things that you like about your self and things that make you happy in life. Fake it until you make it walk around the world like your a queen and you don’t blink an eye about anyone’s opinion about you, have killer confidence or pretend to. Smile and be friendly,open and approachable and you will be able to make friends and be liked. Most of all be your self and you will find your people, passion ect. I hope this helped message us whenever 24/7
: I have a boyfriend, and for the first time in my life I actually feel safe. He doesn't hit me, he treats me well, and he makes me really happy. My anxiety is going away and I don't flinch when people touch me any more. The only problem is my parents hate him. I wish it didn't, but my parent's approval means a lot to me. What do I do? Oh, and 19/f if that matters.
It’s wonderful that he makes you feel like that! Well obviously your parents approval is important, I suggest sitting down and having a conversation, ask them why exactly they don’t approve and then explain how he makes you feel to them, just like you did with me.
Parents can be overprotective, they may just be frightened of you getting hurt or not like seeing their little girl grow up. Parents don’t always have legitimate reasons for things, they’re human just like us and make quick and selfish judgements. See what their reasoning for this is and go from there. Communication is the most important thing.
: I'm 19/f and have been feeling particularly down these past few days because of someone I used to be involved with. It was a mostly physical/on and off thing, but for some reason I've really been missing him and told him as much. He responded saying we should meet but we didn't get to set a concrete day/time because he was otherwise occupied. Now it's two days later and I still haven't heard back. I feel dumb and desperate, but I still want to send him a text tomorrow. Thoughts?
You need to think about if this is going to be good for you darling. It’s rare that stable emotional relationships form out of purely physical ones although it is common that people can get attached. Do you know his reason for wanting to meet up? I wouldn’t make any assumptions about the nature or the meeting, but you need to think whether it would be good for you to connect with him physically again when you know you feel more than that.
There’s nothing wrong with texting him to confirm a day and time, if he said he wants to meet he probably does, so text him and keep it light, just a simple “hey, how are you? I was wondering if you still wanted to meet up?” And take it from there.
Be careful with your heart my love
: I've been going out with this guy for 2 months (were in a long distance relationship) and he's said that I'm his everything and I know for a fact that he means it and he knows I just don't feel like that yet. I don't want to break up but I'm just wondering if its bad that we don't feel the same way like that and what can be done to fix it?
Everyone experiences emotions in a different way, just because you don’t feel quite as intensely about him doesn’t mean you don’t care. It also takes different amounts of time for people to fall in love and to feel like that. Give it time, if you feel like you don’t love him then I suggest breaking up; but give the relationship a fair chance, you’re not going to feel exactly the same about each other because you’re both individuals with your own thoughts and feelings.